I don’t feel the least bit guilty for leaving and going to Greece. I believe they don’t get to call the shots on how I mourn my mother’s death. Maybe my way was to leave for a while and since this trip was on the back burner, it was the right thing to do. I don’t feel bad that I did this.
I eventually came to peace knowing that I had already grieved. I had already gone through his death. So I didn’t have to do that now. Because of that, I was able to celebrate the love lucky strike tattoo I had for him and his life. My brother said they took them into hospice, and again, I wasn’t sure what that meant, but I kind of knew that it was not good. Then a few days later I got that phone call that he died.
- I do not for a minute feel bad I don’t even think about how my uncles and grandma (dad’s mom) is doing.
- Certainly not Mr. Art Bell…Boy, I’m not surprised.
- However, I stand by my decision as one of no intent to hurt, but more of a last moment seeing my mom.
- They are always snipping at each other.
- The document requires a physician’s signature, but you do not need the family to carry out your directive since the purpose is to guide healthcare providers.
He was a very manipulative person and used the possibility of an inheritance to try to control me. He sexualised our relationship and actually propositioned me when I was 17. He was abusive to my brother and sometimes to my children. He was a very angry, ignorant man. Did everything he could to insult and mock people who were closest to him.
Our Hopes And Dreams Vanish
Fast forward 9 years married with 2 kids and doing everything in my power not to parent like him I felt like I wanted to reconcile. I needed to say what I had felt all those years. We found out a couple months ago that he died in a nursing home.
To Release Grief And Sorrow
Nicole — I enjoy learning about the process even if I don’t enjoy the art. I may not want the artwork on my wall — BUT I DO want to learn more about what is driving the artist. At the same time, I know that some artists are driven strictly by financial gain.
He left the 29th and it’s a 15 hour flight. It looks like a nasty, nasty place. He had to have a very good reason to go there to live. Sometimes people who get money just don’t know how to spend it. Enoyed reading all these posts.
Lets Be Grief Friends
Just do what you can to find help, and support for yourself through the hard times too, so you don’t fall into the pit of despair that negative people can bring. My step-father recently died due to a tragic and sudden accident. He has been my step-father since the age of 3 and I am now 22. Up until the age of 20 I always found him strict, a bit full of himself but a good step father who looked after me, loved my father and always tried his best. He was at times a bully to my father but he and my father genuinely loved each other.
Reasons Why The Death Of Someone You Didnt Like Can Cause Complicated Grief Emotions:
Dad lasted a few days longer and in respect I let them know. Dad’s sister phoned back with no words of sympathy only are we invited to the funeral or not. I had only had lost dad an hour prior. I had to get law enforcement involved as I deemed that as a threat and therefore kept my dad’s funeral wishes. Ever since there has been many lies about me. I robbed my parents of money, I never worked and made my parents keep me, and I am a born liar and have mental issues.
Believe, and we’ll be where Jesus is. Don’t forget what the devil did to Job, and his miserable comforters he had, but the end of the story is Job was restored. And he even said, If a tree is cut down, the stump still seeks water and will once again shoot forth a branch.